Showing posts with label Saudi lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Saudi lifestyle. Show all posts

Thursday, 6 November 2014

Myth One: Saudi, the Land Of The Riches

Hi everyone!  

Today I want to target the first myth about Saudi. All the stereotypes and ignorant comments really annoys me. When I meet new people whether they are Muslims, None Muslims, from the East or the West. They all think Saudis are LOADED. Like not only rich, but beyond. I even got questions like "do you even need to work when you are back in Saudi?" or "doesn't your government already provide you with income and housing while you sit at home?" I am always surprised by these questions. I think my eyes used to pop out of my head when I heard them, but I am so used to them by now. 

The funniest thing is when I tell people the reality and that I don't have as much money as they think, they would just think I am lying. Plus, last time I checked it's not polite to question people about their bank accounts. 
Lol no that's not my money or my own gas station, Source
It is true the country is rich and produces crazy amounts of oil. We all hear about the extra billions Saudi makes every year, but who said that normal citizens get any of that money? I have no idea who started that rumour. Saudis get ZERO of the oil selling money. Well not directly. Some of it goes on scholarships, public education, over crowded public hospitals and other stuff -God knows what, but I am "sure" it's beneficial

Surprisingly, Saudis work for their money. OH YAH THEY DO. They aren’t getting any free money, and the jobs don’t pay that much. In fact, a lot of Saudis are moving from high middle class to lower middle class. Especially, after the stock market crisis. All I know about the matter that stock market was growing really fast, and EVERYONE like seriously 98% of the people I know put their money-their lifetime savings- in the stock market. Few months later, the whole thing collapsed, and people lost their money. These days not the only husband works, but the wife does as well to make ends meet. The land of the riches will soon be the land of the “broke” and the “bankrupt”. 

Confused Saudis, Source
Here's a quick snippet of the Saudi reality: A person graduates high school, try to get into a public university, college or an institute. There are 25 public universities across the whole of Saudi in different areas. People tend to stick to what's close to them. In the Eastern province in Saudi for example. There are only three public universities for girls and guys. Getting to those universities is super competitive and when there is no other option the person applies to a private universities, which is one in the Eastern province or go to other areas. Of course there are more in the capital. 
Forward 4-5 years, this person graduates. Then comes the -looking for a job- struggle. It's funny how random none Saudis think, Saudis have their jobs lined up for them. Of course if this person is lucky to have a family business, they will go work there, but that's rarely the case. When a job is secured, comes the low pay which starts from 4-7 grands Saudi Riyals for a BA/BS, which equals 660-1660 GBP. That's it! Now add living, transports, groceries and other expenses. Note that shopping is about the same prices as in London.  Does this struggle sounds familiar? it's happening world wide and Saudis are not above that.  

I know some people see the rich Saudis who travel and spend ridiculous amounts of money, but those super rich ones are a small percentage. Like every society, there is an upper class that controls most of the money. 
closest social hierarchy pyramid I found, Source.
Bottom line is stop the stereotype and know that rich Saudis are a myth! Accept the fact that Saudis are just like any other nationality with so many money problems. 

Please feel free to share your stereotypes and stories in the comments below. Please be respectful to each other! 

Sunday, 29 June 2014

15 things to know about Ramadan in Saudi

Happy Ramadan everyone! رمضان كريم و مبارك على الكل

No matter where I go in the world, I like to come back to Saudi for the month of Ramadan to spend it with my family. I tried it twice in Arizona and once in Manchester. Those experiences nearly killed me! It's just not the same. So, I made it a point to always return for it. Maybe I will stay in the UK when it becomes a winter Ramadan! If you are not familiar with Ramadan, please check the post below this one: Ten Facts About The Month Of Ramadan. Ramadan is special in Saudi for many reasons. I highlighted 15!
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  1. The month of Ramadan is a family month and since a lot of Saudis are enrolled in the scholarship program abroad, mostly everyone returns home at the same time. It's like a big reunion month for the country!
  2. Before the month starts within few days, all the supermarkets go CRAZY busy! It's like no one ever bought food before. Some people top up three big carts. It's shocking and very wasteful.

    Ramadan Grocery Shopping Source
  3. Not everyone wastes, some people buy huge amounts because they cook and share it with the neighbours! That's one of my favourite traditions about the month. Close by neighbours and extended family, send dishes to each other just before the sunset prayer! 
  4. Saudis -ones who are on vacation- flip night and day. Actually, I like this. It's funny how random non muslims who never ever fasted object to this and think it defeats the purpose and that's just because we have to fast we have to suffer not knowing that even sleep is considered worship in Ramadan! WIN WIN. The good thing is not only individuals do this, the whole country does! including shops and restaurants.
    Source
  5. Restaurants are closed during the day because the whole country isn't allowed to eat in public including non muslims. SO! they make up for it by opening from sunset to dawn! I love going out for a late dinner (AKA suhoor or sahari) at 1am!  
  6. Shops and markets stay open late till after midnight. They are allowed to be open during the day, but since most people do not wake up/or finish work before 3pm, they don't bother. 
  7. After iftar, people start going out and the streets turns to mania! It's like the new rush hour.
    The Street before and after Ramadan! Source
  8. Work and school times change in Saudi for the month of Ramadan. For school and governmental sector jobs it's from 10am to 3pm with a vacation in the last ten days and a week for Eid. Sadly, private sector don't get all these perks. They get Eid break. Luckily, this year Ramadan is during the summer holidays! 
  9. The poor people who are working during the month (in banks or in hospital) are easily irritated and they make you feel like no one ever fasted before them!
     
  10. Most summer programs will take a break during Ramadan. 
  11. The Iftar table usually consists of soup, salad, one extra appetizer, main dish usually something with rice and of course desert! Obviously, everyone end up eating a bite of each and feeling super full! The rest usually ends up getting eaten through out the night or as the later meal that's before dawn prayer.
  12. There are two drinks that you will find on almost all Saudi tables this Ramadan! Vimto and Tang. I don't know how this started, but they have been on the tables since before I was born regardless of how unhealthy they are!
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  13. For some odd reason, all TV producers have conspired to turn the Month of Ramadan from a worship month into a big TV month, where all Arabian drama start! People get really hooked on the shows timing their whole days around them.
    This cartoon is too funny and exactly sums up my point! instead of facing God on the prayer mat, a lot of people choose to face the TV! 
  14. Thankfully, many mosques and Islamic centres try to lessen the affect of TV and keep trying to hold night programs with informative lectures, prayers and recommended worship! These kind of things really bring back the spirituality of the month!
  15. The Saudi cities are decorated with lights and colourful banners to welcome the month!
    View of how lit up the neighbourhood during Ramadan
Hope this brought a smile to your face and inshallah this month will be wonderful for us all and full of good deeds and reflections

Note: Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, so please don't get offended. The purpose of this blog is to know more about the GCC culture. 

Note: These things are shared among the rest of the Arab world in general and the Arabian Gulf in particular. 

Saturday, 28 June 2014

Madeleine Cafe in Khobar

Today, I went with my lovely cousins to discover a new cafe in Khobar; Madeleine. It's been open for a while, but I have been away for most of last year, so I just got a chance to try it tonight. 

Initially, we went to only have desert, but after smelling the food and reading the menu we got tempted to eat as well! My favourite thing about the whole shop is their graphics and branding. I just love the quirky black and white sketches used behind the deserts counter, on the door, on their boxes and menus. 

They have two sitting areas. The downstairs one, which was really noisy and the upstairs one. It was quiet and relaxing. Everyone was raving about their deserts. We started with them. They were very sweet and nice a mix of French, American, Italian and Middle Eastern. They have few innovative macaroons. They were nice, but not out of this world. The food was lovely and oddly Italian. Typical Saudi cafes where you get international food. It was a little pricey for what we got. The price of main dishes was almost the same as one desert.   

Their decor is between classic and quirky with a mix of wooden touches. Their chairs were really comfortable and the light pistachio green paint is soothing. It's a great place to chill with friends and family.     
When you first go in
Upstairs 
The menu
A lot of deserts to choose from 
Our Picks
Prawns Risotto and Béchamel Pizza